Heal first

Most people would never enjoy genuine love in their life because they have refused to heal. The healing process Is so important and should never be sidelined. 

I’ve seen people who refused to heal become so much problems for others. Taking out time to heal is very essential for you and your partner. 

You’ll get to see people who carry emotional and psychological baggages to new relationships because the process of healing was overlooked. 

When people aren’t healed, innate fears are now projected as realities to innocent partners. In this regard, the circle of pain continues to grow and circulate.

Take out time to heal, ask God to disintegrate your fears as well as the negative experiences that created those fears. 

After Ruth lost her husband to the cold hands of death, she didn’t allow the trauma of an early lose to distort her perception about love, family life and a happy ending. She went ahead in pursuit of a new life with her mother-in-law, in turn, she got a good man and a good life. 

The end of a relationship may be a very sad experience, the death of a love one may even be more disastrous and the lifeless hands of divorce may create an eternal space in your heart. 

Regardless, make sure you heal...Pray for healing, search for healing, seek counsel and move on. Do not allow a bad experience to keep you from an adventurous life. 

In my book emotional healing, I wrote about a near death experience I had with depression and anxiety.  During that period I fiercely sought out new ways to be happy, I prayed a lot and built a personal relationship with God. 

Pain is not a death sentence, lose is not the end of your life. You can decide to go on an intentional journey to secure your healing. I pray that God sees you through this phase of your life in Jesus name. Amen.

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