Why you should go for a good man

I’m not going to mix up words in this post. I’m going to debunk some major myths you’ve been saddled with over the years. Myths like, “he was not like this”, “I thought he loved me”, “when we get married he would change”. I must tell you this, you’ll know almost everything about the man you intend to marry from his conversation and actions. Listen! When a man loves you, you would know! 

There’s nothing that would change in a man’s life but the amount of grey hair on his head, not his love for you, nor his passion for you. Do not deceive yourself into thinking you can pray or challenge a man into loving you.  During courtship, listen to them, and watch carefully how they treat you, it never almost changes. If he loves you, his value for you would increase after marriage. If he never did love you before marriage, it may not get better. 

The next myth that has plunged deeply into the consciousness of people is thinking “he would change”. This is not a valid pattern of thought and it’s an attempt to distort the reality of realities. You do not marry people to change them but to love them. Marriage is not a project, but a love circle of patience, trust and faith. 

When you are choosing a man, take your eyes off his charisma, his looks and his wealth. Judge him based on how he values, respects and loves you. He may have wealth, status and class. I tell you, these are not the things you really need to be happy. You need a good man who values you and treats you respectfully. Go for a good man.