How to resolve conflicts in relationships

I want to tell you something that you’ve never heard before. You could take it seriously or leave it but this would save you from so many years of labor. 

How can conflicts be avoided in your relationship? 

I would tell you.

Hmmm, I repeat, you’ve never heard this before....

🎈UNDERSTAND  that conflicts are inevitable.

🎈Due to its inevitability, you should expect it to occur one way or the other.

🎈 NO matter how identical you and your partner are, your ideologies and experiences may differ.

🎈NEVER forget that conflicts are usually resolved through negotiations and compromises.

🎈 DO not always validate the superiority of your point of view. You are not usually right all the time. 

🎈LISTEN very carefully to the perspectives of your partner because most times the resolution lies within conversations.

🎈DON’T shut the door all the time. Take sometime out and negotiate accordingly, you SHOULD understand that negotiations is at the heart of conflict resolution.

🎈IN a situation where your partner has refused to identify with your point of view, you can demand for the presence of a third party. 

🎈ALWAYS be a specialist in conflict resolution!!