Is every lady my potential wife??

 Hey guys, 

Today’s post is directed to the men. I want to give you tips you can use to find the one who is right for you. I’m not going to waste your time on theology but I would tell you something you already know but may be missing. 

The first thing you must know is that not every lady you come across is going to be your wife. It is very necessary that you understand this reality before asking every lady out that comes you way. You may save yourself from this situations when you are very sure of what you want. 

God created every lady differently hence all of them would not fit into the things you want. The first thing you must do is get a paper and write out all the physical attributes you want from the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. This would save you from going after every lady God brings your way. 

Remember this, God does not bring ladies your way because he wants you to marry them. Some of the ladies God brings your way are usually your helpers but you spoil things by asking them to be in relationships with you. Focus on building meaningful relationships with ladies and wait for the relationship to blossom into Gods destined plan for your life. 

Don’t be in a hurry to settle down maritally that you destroy the simplicity of meaningful relationships.