What about red flags?

 Hey guys, 

There’s something that has been on my mind for some days now. I would just state it clearly and I pray you get the message. 

When the lord tells you to leave a relationship, it is not totally because they are bad people. It could be for several other reasons apart from the presence of a character flaw. Sometimes God could tell you to leave a relationship for the good of the person and not necessarily because of red flags. Also if someone leaves you, don’t think you are a bad person or there’s something wrong with you. 

 In other situations it could be for the enablement of his purposes in your lives or it could just be that your destinations and purposes are different. Whatever the reason is, remember this God loves you both and he has great plans for your lives. When you leave a relationship don’t go around counting the red flags of your partner, instead let wisdom guide you. 

When Orpah separated from Ruth and Naomi, it wasn’t because she was bad. She left because she did not have the Faith of Ruth to go with Naomi. Remember she followed a little but she turned back her face when Naomi persuaded them to return. Orpah put her eyes on the things that she could see but Ruth looked ahead in Faith. 

When you leave relationships, remember that every man has a path that was designed by the creator. Stop putting yourself on the peripheral by counting the flaws of your partner, instead go ahead trusting God to perfect all that Concerns you.