When I become 30

Episode 3: Marry a Kind man

🎈Do not marry a man because he is nice to you. Marry him because he is a nice man.

🎈When you are choosing a spouse, be careful of their overly kind nature towards you, rather watch how they treat their parents, siblings and people working with them.

🎈If they are kind towards you and overlook their obligations to their siblings and family members, be careful. 

🎈Watch their reaction to their parents. This attribute shows how you would be treated when you become part of his family. 

🎈Does he have friends? If he doesn’t watch out for that. Everyone is supposed to have a support system.

🎈Your partner may be nice to you, but if they are not nice to others, it only shows that in the long run they would also treat you badly.

🎈In this journal entry for today, remind yourself that a man being nice to others means that averagely he would be very kind to you.